Yes, you read that right. I’m engaged! The wedding’s still a while away, but that doesn’t mean I haven’t started feeling the pressure of wedding planning.
I’m still figuring things out as I go, but here are 5 lessons I’ve learned so far.
You don’t need to decide everything at once
It’s easy to get overwhelmed by the never-ending to-do list. But breaking that list down in sections makes it feel a lot less stressful.
It helps when the list is aesthetically pleasing too.
Photo from Pinterest
Opinions will come from everywhere
A little silly when we get advice from someone who doesn’t even know the groom’s name…
I’m learning that not every opinion needs to be taken to heart.
Photo from Pinterest
Budgeting a wedding is humbling
Not everyone is fortunate to be spending tens (or hundreds) of thousands on their wedding. And honestly, it’s not every bride’s dream, either.
It really makes you think about what matters to you.
Photo from Pinterest
Be mindful of how much you share
Talking about the wedding is a little tricky. Or more specifically, who you talk about it with.
A casual conversation that started with “how’s the planning going?” can quickly put you in an uncomfortable corner with no easy way out.
Photo from Pinterest
Enjoy being engaged
It’s easy to get caught up in the planning of the wedding.
I’m trying to remind myself to slow down and actually enjoy being engaged. Because this season is just as special as the wedding day itself.
And you bet I’m showing off the ring every chance I get!
Photo of the ring!
I’m still learning as I go, but these little reminders have helped me stay grounded throughout the process.
If you’re a bride-to-be, take what resonates and leave the rest! There’s no right way to plan a wedding.
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