As summer comes to an end, it’s time to swap out our wardrobes and embrace the cozy layers of fall. You know the drill: tuck away the shorts and tank tops, and bring out the knit sweaters, Chelsea boots, and blanket scarves.
And with the arrival of fall comes the old fashion rule that people have said for generations: “You can’t wear white after Labour Day.”
We’ve all heard it. But let’s be real: why should we say goodbye to our favourite white pieces just because of some outdated tradition?
Spoiler alert: we shouldn’t. And while we’re at it, here are a few other so-called “rules” that are meant to be broken too.
1. No White After Labour Day
Where did this fashion “rule” originate anyway? Well, in the old days, the wealthy made sure to wear white all summer long, while commoners couldn’t, because they had to deal with the dirt of manual labour and house chores, like cooking and cleaning.
But as chic and crisp white is, it can be just as cozy as any fall hue. Whether it’s a sleek pair of white boots, a cream sweater, or a winter white coat, this neutral shade can be a staple in your fall and winter wardrobes. Pair it with fall textures like knit, leather, or suede to create a perfect warm and stylish look.
2. Match Your Handbag with Your Shoes
I remember growing up, there was an aunty at Church who always swore by this rule. If her purse was purple, you could bet her shoes were purple too.
But these days, mixing and matching not only makes your look more interesting, but also lets your personality shine through. Gone are the days when your accessories had to be perfectly colour coordinated. Today’s fashion is all about mixing it up. A bold, colourful handbag can add a pop of fun to any outfit, and who says your shoes can’t be a completely different colour?
3. Don’t Pair Black with Navy
The old “no black and navy” rule is one of those fashion myths that’s been around forever, and you might’ve even heard “no black and brown” thrown in there too. The idea was that these colours were too close in shade to pair together, making the outfit look muddled or boring.
But today, this rule feels outdated and limiting. Black and blue, or black and brown, can actually create a rich, sophisticated look when styled thoughtfully. It’s all about playing with different shades, textures, and silhouettes. Finish your look with neutral accessories to keep things polished and stylish.
4. Avoid Mixing Prints
Mixing prints can seem intimidating at first, but when done right, it can add a playful and creative twist to your look.
I like to start with prints that share a common colour or theme, and then gradually work my way up to more adventurous combinations. For example, stripes and florals can complement each other beautifully, while polka dots and plaid can create a fun, eclectic vibe. So don’t be afraid to experiment and see what works for you.
5. Denim-on-Denim Is a No-Go
The Canadian tuxedo has made a major comeback lately, and it’s not going anywhere. I personally love this look because it combines a cool, country-inspired vibe with modern style (plus I love country music!).
You can either go for a full monochrome denim, or mix lighter and darker washes to create depth and interest. Whether it’s a classic denim jacket with jeans or a chic denim dress, there are plenty of ways to showcase your style and make a statement with this denim-on-denim trend.
6. Never Mix Silver and Gold Jewelry
Mixing metals used to be considered a fashion faux pas, but that’s definitely not the case anymore. In fact, layering silver and gold jewelry can create a chic, modern, and striking contrast that’s perfect for today’s fashion scene.
My trick is choosing pieces similar in shape or size, like stacking silver and gold rings bangles. For a bolder touch, you can also mix and match different textures, or add some pieces with shiny pavé to elevate your look. So if you’re like me and you love both silver and gold, there’s no need to play favourites anymore!
7. You Must Dress Your Age
Fashion is for everyone, regardless of age. Growing up, I’d hear people say that once you’re older, it’s time to ditch the Sanrio graphic tees, spaghetti straps, hair bows, and bold colours, while younger folks were told to avoid tweed, silk scarves, and other “mature” styles.
But really, fashion is about wearing what makes you feel good and confident. It doesn’t matter if that means rocking a leather jacket, flaunting a mini skirt, throwing on a pair of overalls, or wearing a strawberry shaped purse. Your wardrobe should be a reflection of your personality, not a set of age-related rules. Embrace what makes you happy and wear it with pride!
Fashion rules are meant to be guidelines, not strict laws. But if there’s one fashion rule you should always follow, it’s this: Wear what makes you feel good.
So, as the seasons change, don’t be afraid to break a few of those old-school rules and have fun with your style. After all, the best outfits are the ones that make you feel confident and true to yourself!
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